Sexual Advice - Heighten His Orgasm. Adult Oral Sex Tips. Advice on giving  great oral sex that he will not forget.  

Part 3 - Enjoyment of giving him great head.

Part 1:  Adult Advice Him Great Oral Sex  

- How to find his G spot. Taking his stiff cock inside your mouth and more.

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- Heighten his orgasm - get great enjoyment out of giving him great oral sex.     Click here to Read Part 3.

LESSON SIX  -Heighten his Orgasm!

Let's now heighten his orgasm even more with a refinement of your skills.  Place your thumb at the very base of the penis.  What you are going to do is to block the tube through which the semen spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen. If at the same time you suck him with everything you have directly on the head of his cock, you can delay his orgasm for several long and exciting moments. When you finally allow the cum to spurt, it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result.  Keeping the man on the edge can add to his orgasm.  Just keep him on the edge once and you will see how hard he will cum and you will love having the power to do it.  He will be amazed at your skill! 

If you delay him coming for only a few short moments, you will be surprised by the intensity of his orgasm.  These techniques are the basis of a large number of men I have pleased by oral sex from adult friend finders. 

After you have mastered the above you are ready for much more. You are becoming an expert in giving a fantastic, mind blowing, BJ.  When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more  advanced techniques that will even enhance greater pleasure for him. If you have more than one man to please, you will learn even more.  There are advantages of being a part time swinger.  So why not do some self discovery. Find out what works for you and for your sexual partners and make your oral skills in giving a BJ as individual as your fingerprint. After all, you want your man to pick you out in the dark among others.  Giving a man oral sex is great, but when done right, he will want it more and more, over and over again.  

LESSON SEVEN - You don't have to gag having oral sex.

For some, gagging can be a problem.  The first thing that you might encounter when you started giving bj's, is the gag reflex. Most men like as much of there shaft in your mouth as possible. Some will even want to force their shaft down your throat as far as they can get it. Just about all of the men when they get close to coming, will push your head down so you will take them deeper.  Now let's look at the oral sex.  Consider the average length of a a woman's oral cavity is three to four inches while the average shaft is between five and a half inches to six and a half inches. 70% of cocks are within this range. Thus getting all of it in your mouth is pretty close to impossible. 

But there are other ways.  You can master the necessary technique to fix most shafts deep into your mouth.  What you need to do is to take the shaft into your mouth and down your throat.  The biggest obstacle to taking all of his cock down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost eighty degrees behind your tongue.  This then leads down your throat.  The first thing to do is get the hard on  past that angle. In order to use this method, get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your sexy body sprawled across the bed, this will tilt you head back sharply. This will align your mouth and throat  in such a way that insertion of his dick can be made very easy.  Of course you don't have to take it this deep. Some women don't like the taste of semen, but if you are deep throating, you can't really taste it.  

LESSON EIGHT- How deep is deep

If you  maintain this relaxation as he goes deep into your throat then you can take any length of a dick into your mouth.  It is a big turn on for a guy if you let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still for a few seconds at first. The more you do it the better it feels. You can now give your partner greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock.  If you are able to stimulate his shaft with your tongue, go for it!  Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like going all the way but in your mouth. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you.  Oral sex for a man is one of the greatest sexual  pleasures in his life. 

Now he has a couple of options where to cum.  At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his cock all the way inside your mouth opening.  Let him pick where to come.  Most men enjoy seeing and feeling his dick unloading inside a mouth.  They get off big time doing this. 

Will anyone be able to use the "deep throat" technique?  Well, maybe not every one, but if you try hard enough you will be on your way of becoming his best sexual partner ever.  If you are new to this tell your partner you are.  Men always like thinking they are the first and if it is the truth so be it.  Now if the man's shaft is thick, which is a little larger that the inside of a toilet paper roll, it will be more difficult for you to deep throat him. If your man is much thicker than average, just focus on the head of this dick until he is about to cum then try to go as deep as you can.   Many women can do this for a few seconds without any problem even with a thick dick.

LESSON NINE  -  Oral Sex is the Ultimate Gift When Done Right.

THE ULTIMATE:   Now here is what men desire the most from a blow job.  A man wants the woman to treat his dick like a expensive jewel.  They want to see YOUR passion, your desire and excitement to please him.  The ultimate blow job for a man is not just you sucking him off, but your putting effort and the best of your passion in doing him.  Get in a position where he can see it and watch you work your magic.  When he reaches the ultimate state of ecstasy, he probably won't be able to keep his eyes open.  So make sure he can see what you are doing to him before and after he cums!  Depending and what he desires, you can either swallow his load, or let some ooze out of the side of your mouth and playfully lick it up.  Or let some flow back on his dick, then use your tongue to creatively clean his member.  The extra sensation he receives from this tantalizes every sensitive part of cock.  This could even lead to his having a multiple orgasm.    

Then look directly into his eyes and offer that huge satisfied smile on your face.  This is a big rush for him.  Remember sex starts and ends in the brain.  So the more excitement and passion you put into it the more that not only you, but he will enjoy it.

Lesson Nine is so important to stress what you really need to do to make this the ultimate climax for him and THE blowjob that he will remember.

LESSON TEN -  The Family Jewels and More

Let's look at another portion of your partner's private parts.  To give him the best you can offer, it is important that you don't forget them or ignore the pleasure he will get by you touching and licking his jewels.  Of course, these are his two sacs, balls, or nuts.  You can use your special techniques to include these sensitive parts into your oral stimulation.  Many men are extremely sensitive down there, but they are strong when it comes to a pounding intercourse.  Think of his balls as the entire package. 

So let's start this lesson. Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue.  Depending if he shaves this area, they can be very smooth, or covered with hair.  If there is hair, then the moisture from your mouth will flatten the hairs down and make them slick. As you lick this area,  be sure to start off with little pressure.  Let him experience the warmth of your tongue.  Also touch his nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want to gently caress the head of this dick with your hand while you are bathing his now wet balls with your tongue and mouth.

Remember going too hard on them at first can bring on pain and he could go soft.  After a minute or two of bathing his balls with your tongue, you can  take both his balls in your mouth.  Again do it where he can open his eyes and see you enjoying his jewels.  Remember the testicles is part of the foreplay leading up to the ultimate BJ. This foreplay is a very important part of getting your man hot. The sensations for your man is well worth it  when you take the time to enjoy his testicles!

LESSON ELEVEN- Anal Licking  [also call rimming, analingus]

At first I was not sure I was going to include this into my lesson plan, but it is part of giving your man great oral sex.  First and foremost only do this if the guy has taken a bath or shower having cleansed the area carefully.  Perhaps take a shower with him to ensure that the area is clean.  Your lathering him all over will also stimulate him prior to your getting to the next step. Actually, this should go for either partner male or female so that you are both fresh and sweet smelling. 

Anal licking as it called is putting ones tongue into the anal opening. However, most just call it ass licking, ass sucking or rimming.  For this lesson, place your partner on his back with his legs in the air and his knees close to his shoulders. This spreads open his buttocks and allow easy access to his anal opening. You are probably under the impression that actual penetration or deep penetration of his ass itself is necessary for your partner to receive the most satisfaction. Well that is not true. There are major nerve endings around the anus itself so the opening and the first inch inside is everything.  Licking around the area and just inside the ass is all that is needed.  This method hardly ever will make the man come by itself, but it does intensify his hard on which sometimes leads to an explosive unloading of sperm.  Before you try this form of oral, be sure that your partner wants to engage in it.  If he is not sure,  start off slowly and if he has a positive reaction, then keep going.  If not,  back off and use another sensual technique to keep him hard without interruption. 

Another position to give oral anal pleasure, is to have the man get into a doggy position.  The advantage here is that you don't have the bed in the way and you can put your tongue deeper in him.  However, you are primarily focusing on his ass instead of his dick.  Butt (hmmmm), he can jerk himself and get two sensations all the while.  Anal Oral is a powerful stimulant and when combined with other activities such as vigorous hand stimulation on his throbbing shaft it will cause a rapid and powerful release!

LESSON TWELVE  Some finger fun to give him.

Most people use there fingers or a dildo. Some people enjoy fingering an ass with a   A plastic glove or two. I enjoy getting it with a smaller dildo that has a mini vibrator in it.  but for this lesson we will start with  your finger. As you are slowly giving head begin a slow playful search around his ass. Many men never had this done to them or are particularly sensitive in this area as we already know by the prior lesson.   If you have massage oil it makes entry much easier.  As your partner ass relaxes entry enter easy.  Go slowly exploring the velvety sensations along the sides of his opening. Go in and out slowly and let it build.   When your finger is inside his asshole completely you will be at the area of the prostate gland. When men have sex with men the prostate area is the most stimulating so is your finger.  Massage of this gland by your finger will produce some of the most delightful sensations for your partner.  You will see a lot more precum than norm.  If you are blowing him the do the up and down at the same speed as the in and out.   If he is jerking himself then do the same but also from time to time lick his balls.  When he state to cum push up very firmly with each shot of cum.  and don't stop for a good ten seconds or more after he unloaded. 

LESSON THIRTEEN - How to Vibrate a Penis

You are probably thinking, what? Vibrate a penis?  Yes, that is right!  Vibrating is not just for a woman.  A mini-dildo vibrator works exceptionally well for this type of stimulus. It is just the same length as the average finger and due to the vibrations that it produces, the sensations against the prostate gland are enhanced many times more.  Sometimes, a vibrator can make the man soft, but don't stop!  Believe it or not, it is an excrutiating turn on and he will still have an explosive orgasm. 

Many people have questions about using a vibrator around the penis itself.  Does it add to the sensation or not? First, you need an electric vibrator that offers a lower and more throbbing vibration. You need to find your man's G spot and hold the vibrator on it.  If, and I mean if, if he can take the 20-30 seconds  of being on the very edge, he will have one of this most forceful unloading of his seed that he ever thought possible.  If a man normally dribbles his cum,  using a vibrator can turn his sperm into a powerful spray.  It is really a powerful orgasm if he is willing to take it.  If he just can't take the vibrator by itself, then try using your tongue by licking his shaft or balls. As long as you have the vibrator handy anyway, try it around the penis.

LESSON FOURTEEN  - How to Give a BJ in Ten Minutes or  Less

There are times when you will want to get him off quickly because it just feels so good. Because you want to become an expert at all aspects of giving oral  pleasures, you'll want to know all the techniques and methods possible. It differs from lesson four in that you are a more understanding of  how to give oral sex to your man.   Place your lips around the head of your partner's cock and twirl your tongue and moist lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not require much in the way of cock sucking at all. It is also a great way to make a man with a large or very thick dick to come faster.

This works simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on his dick.  It is not necessary to be skillful at it, but you must do it with pleasureful and wanton lust.  All that is necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area which is not hard to find.  By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick powerful cum. It is not necessary to bob your head up and down to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he cums.  This is a sure fast way to get his fire started for another round of pleasure. 

LESSON FIFTEEN 

Sixty-nine is not always the perfect way to provide your partner oral satisfaction. Inadvertently one of you will "let up" your end of the cock sucking in order to experience the subtle pleasures the other partner is giving you. For this reason I have included it as the final lesson. Many people think that the deep throat technique is the ultimate pleasure you can give your partner. Actually I believe that sixty-nine is the ultimate pleasure. Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in tune with each others innermost desires, the sixty nine is the ultimate. But because of the problems mentioned earlier in this lesson, most people practice it too early and it becomes an intensely satisfying experience for one partner at the expense of the other. When you are completely on each other's wavelength you will discover that this is the most effective way of giving as well as receiving pleasure.

LESSON SIXTEEN

This is a open book lesson.  You become the teacher and acquire the skills to give pleasure with passion.  Find your guy and tell him this coming week you are going to suck him off each day of the week.  During that time period I want you to try what you have learned about giving head and to see what works best for you and your man.  There are many ways to please a man by giving head.  Send us your responses to bjhead@adultdatingsiteonline.com.  By doing so, you might even add a new lesson! You don't get any money or products but your input could provide new methods of giving pleasure to your partner.  So don't hold back, open your mouth, keep your guy enjoying you being his cocklover.  It's are great way to keep him desiring you too.